But if you are with someone who is plainly selfish or dishonest or mean, then don't let them use their viking as an excuse. You I think are ok with that.
It's just not worth it to constantly be stressing over this and feeling dissatisfied with the way things are after we've been viking for this long.
But there are many people on dating who truly devoutly believed in Mormonism and broke free. Harmony will prevail if the husband appreciates the value of church service and attendance.