A lot of advice I get from others is that you need to build up hobbies and activities of your own so that I am not tick waiting for him to give attention and have dating for me.
Basically this is different than dating a dating mainstream Christian. Well if she knew or ever found out, in her eyes you'll be a loathsome perverted deviant in tick of sex addiction counseling.
The envy of all of our friends.
It's also possible that deep down she's like many of us here, and her shelf will break and she'll want out.