I would need to ask my husband again. I wouldn't end a relationship with her, just as I wouldn't deny someone a job, or refuse to socialize with someone who is a Mormon.
Hello, my boyfriend is in his second year of residency for Emergency Medicine, and we live together.
I also definitely don't want her raising my future children, though, and I'll be very clear about that. I would think that a comprise between you getting missionary discussions and her reading the Griends letter would be even.